onionsoupmix ([info]onionsoupmix) wrote,
@ 2009-05-07 14:32:00
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Good News Alert: The Golden Rule Applies Only to People With Whom You Agree.

In this thread, I take offense to the idea that all Reform and Conservative groups are comprised of selfish and superficial Jews who wouldn't know self-sacrifice if it hit them in the head. In response, I get called a crank, scoffer and a ho. Yep. Check it out before the thread disappears. 

And it is precisely because of the Shoah that we owe goyim nothing except to make sure they leave us alone (and keep the 7 Mitzvos Bnei Noiach which include leaving us alone). Rare is the goy who says a word when a Jew bleeds. Most secretly rejoice. When every Jew is fed and has proper medical care, then we can worry about tribesmen who slash each other up and who would slash us up for a fiver given half a chance. Nevertheless, plenty of shluchim help goyim, if only by providing them with employment at wages far above the average in remote locations. But most do far more, and many is the goy who pretends he is a Jew to get assistance, and is rarely questioned because the shluchim would rather err than let one Jew fall into hunger .  From here.

So the liberal self-hating Jew has spoken again! I think a good dose of Chassidus can clean up some of the poison I see here.

I sure hope she doesn't cheat on her husband just as this HO is so disloyal to her faith. And I agree, we should ignore her/it!  From here.

mcp is a scoffer who only shows how grub she is every time she vomits out another silly post. Here.


How many times have we heard chabad spout  PC lines such as "there is no such thing as a reform or conservative Jew, just a Jew" and that labels are for cans, not Jews?  Well, yeah. That's what they tell the secular world when they are trying to mekarev them. But in private, when they think no one is watching, many Lubavitchers will sing a different song. Lest you think that this thread is an abberration or full of  random crazy people, note that many, many Orthodox people allow speaking loshon hora against reform and conservative movements in the guise of " we must eradicate the evil from our midst." Basically, the way it works is that in some segments of the frum world,  Ahavat Yisroel applies pretty much to those people you agree with and are friends with anyway. It most certainly doesn't apply to anyone whose ideas you don't agree with and can label as dangerous or subversive.

For the record, there were people on that thread who defended me by posting that I am not, in fact, a ho or that such terminology is inappropriate for a chabad site.  Oddly, though, there weren't many posts noting that painting all non-orthodox Jews as selfish, poisoned and "deformed" is inappropriate for a chabad site because Judaism/Torah/Hashem/ Rebbe wouldn't have wanted  anyone to speak like that about others. Why is that?



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[info]antidos
2009-05-07 07:40 pm UTC (link)
May I ask, and pardon me for my ignorance, what is 'ho' ?

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[info]tatianalarina
2009-05-07 07:49 pm UTC (link)
Whore.

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[info]aunt_becca
2009-05-07 07:40 pm UTC (link)
I went onto the site, and also read the conversation threads from other discussions. "Reform Horror Stories" was particularly maddeding. They completely missed your point. From the looks of it, you are an acive member who gets a lot of flack from the other participants.I know several people who became frum via Chabad. I think if they saw what these select people really think of them, they would have run the other way. It's insulting and hurtful at best. I'd really, really like to think this is a lunatic fringe within Chabad. In other threads, Rabbi Freedman (? spelling) seemed logical.
I also wonder now what my Chabad rabbi, and real Chabad friends think.

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[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-07 07:59 pm UTC (link)
I really think that many shluchim have a "kiruv face" that they show to the world and when working in this mode, they would never belittle gentiles or use racist terms or speak derogatorily of Jews who go to college or have tvs or wear pants or don't agree with them in some other way. And then when they are with their friends, people with whom they have grown up, they loosen up a little and tell it like they really think. I think Rabbi Friedman is also like this, a couple of years ago I blogged about his article in which he declares all children born from in-vitro methods and all other "unnatural" means to be less holy than those who were conceived the usual way. There are some exceptions, but these people are often on the fringe and seen as nuts- Boteach, Dr. Lazerson, etc.

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[info]antidos
2009-05-07 08:06 pm UTC (link)
Many, if not all. Shouldn't listen to them, should listen to their kids who haven't learned how to put on 'kiruv face' yet.

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[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-07 08:25 pm UTC (link)
try harder. I'm sure you can think of some Jew you have secretly been wishing to kill. Perhaps for a pagan atheist sacrifice to your flying spaghetti monster deity?

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[info]sethg_prime
2009-05-07 08:31 pm UTC (link)
Sometimes it's better not to plan your murders. Just be spontaneous!

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[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-07 08:33 pm UTC (link)
Seth, that's a good idea. I think I read that in How to Be A Good Goy or maybe it was Murderous Gentiles for Dummies.

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[info]llennhoff
2009-05-07 08:46 pm UTC (link)
First of all, according to most Orthodox meforshim the scope of love your neighbor is severely limited. In general, much of the tradition takes the lovely sounding universal ideals expressed in the Torah and the prophets and particularizes them. Love the stranger, because you were strangers in Egypt becomes a command to love the convert. Love your neighbor refers only to your shomer shabbes Jewish neighbor.

Secondly, I agree that it is hard for someone in a group to not take an attack on the group personally. I tell my O friends "before you say something around me about the C movement, replace whatever reference to C you are about to make with "Larry's mother". If you still want to make it, go ahead, but now you can guess how I'm going to react.

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[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-07 09:04 pm UTC (link)
But I didn't attack the group. Neither do I belong to the r-c movement...

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How many times should I tell you?
[info]24816
2009-05-07 09:04 pm UTC (link)
Torah was given to people, not to angels. Torah doesn't make angels of people. Torah gives people an opportunity. Some take it, others are still in the process. But without Torah the very same people would be much worse.
Torah has positive effect on world. Conservatives, Reforms, Christians, Muslim are all by-product of Judaism.
Buddhists sit in nirvana while Christians take care of their poor dying in the streets.
Some people can love Jews as they are, but some people are able to love only their own highest standards. OSM licks up to those who agrees with her and writes in stern tone to others, hint, hint.
-FI

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Re: How many times should I tell you?
[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-07 09:11 pm UTC (link)
Do you really think buddhists don't do anything to improve the world? No charitable organizations, nothing?

Also, I really don't think Torah made much improvements in some of the people on that thread. Sure, you can argue that without Torah, they would be even worse. But this is a weak argument, kind of like if you see me drinking liquid soap and ask me why am I doing that and then I tell you because drinking liquid soap drives away the crocodiles and you inform me that there are no crocodiles around here and I tell you that's because I'm drinking liquid soap.

Also, just like in my post about monkeys, all of us are able to be moral without religion. People who drop torah and miztvos do not go out and become ax murderers.

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here's something in your native language:
[info]antidos
2009-05-07 10:39 pm UTC (link)
Buddhists sit in nirvana while Christians take care of their poor dying in the streets.


Широкими массами буддизм воспринимался как разновидность китайского даосизма. Они принимали в новом учении все то, что было связано с облегчением страданий в этой жизни и с надеж-дой на вечное блаженство в будущем. Буддизм привлекал и тем, что монахи врачевали страждущих, отпускали грехи, совершали погребальные обряды, возносили молитвы за мирян. Храмовые праздники, молебны и прочие церемонии, совершавшиеся в мо-настырях, нередко выливались в шумные народные празднества и проходили в атмосфере религиозной экзальтации. Притягатель-ность буддизма усиливалась и благотворительностью монастырей: монахи оказывали помощь населению во время эпидемий, рыли колодцы, строили мосты, бесплатные столовые, общественные бани, убирали мусор и пр.

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Re: here's something in your native language:
[info]24816
2009-05-08 02:09 pm UTC (link)
I trust my source and I have no reason to doubt yours. Then is it possible that:
Buddhism is better than nothing but still not as efficient as Christianity in taking care of poor (which would only prove that the natural community laws have limited application).
Buddhism is also part of Abraham’s legacy (when he sent away some of his children with “presents”).
The 10 lost tribes have something to do with it?
-FI

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[info]24816
2009-05-07 09:20 pm UTC (link)
Buddhists learn from christians how to improve the world
Here is some impact of Judaism on civilization
http://machanaim.org/philosof/kook/makro.htm#0_2
People don't drop Torah and mizvos as soon as they stop being religious, but they are rolling dice for their offspring, which is much more risky and painful, G-d forbid.
-FI

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(Anonymous)
2009-05-07 11:34 pm UTC (link)
They all share the same leftist politics, none can speak Hebrew and none keep Kashrut or Shomer Shabbos.

Uh-oh, I guess all the chassidishe women who learn in Yiddish rather than lashon kodesh are just like R or C jews?

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(Anonymous)
2009-05-08 12:04 am UTC (link)
hahahaha, I love your 'highly problematic worldview'. Please keep it up, you blog is part of my 'daily round' , would sorely miss it if it went.

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[info]joshuazelinsky
2009-05-08 01:08 am UTC (link)
It appears that at least one other commentator (chossidnistar) was somewhat willing to take issue with the claims in that thread.

When I tell a lot of friends what chabad can be like when they think no one is listening, they rarely believe me. I'll have to just point them to chabadtalk.

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[info]barilanisher
2009-05-08 04:21 pm UTC (link)
Another good example the way Lubavichers speak about Rabbi Shah and his followers. Indeed he said very hard, may be even offensive criticism about Lubavicher Rebbe and his movement. Indeed, Litvash yeshiva student do not like Chabad, feel snobbish superiority toward them and laught of them. BUT, litvashers AT LEAST use legitimate critics and normative language. When Lubavichers speak about Rav Shah and his followers, you hear swearing after cursing. Supermax exercises square become like Yale Library in comparison to "770" when hasidesher bohrim speak about litvashers.

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Daisy chain of snobs!
[info]hipstamom
2009-05-08 08:46 pm UTC (link)
First of all, they picked up the word "ho" from all the schwartzas in NYC. Obviously, it wasn't from the internet or TV.

It's the whole mob mentality thing...I think many people involved in kiruv work struggle to hide their distain for "secular" Jews or goyim. In other communities where this is not the focus people act really stupid.

I think it's human nature to be around others who are like you. My old community was full of boring, uptight, nasty, and humorless people. They didn't like me and I didn't like them. That place had no kiruv buffer; just idiocy.

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(Anonymous)
2009-05-08 10:17 pm UTC (link)
What I love most is not so much how much hatred these people show, but that they project that hatred onto others and call people who express any views they disagree with a "self-hating jew." I used to play a game with the comments on VIN to see if I can predict which posts or comments will prompt resort to the "self-hating jew" tactic and how long it will take. I don't play that game any more because it's become far too easy and predictable.

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Such hatred
(Anonymous)
2009-05-09 09:43 am UTC (link)
I'm so glad Judaism is dying religion

It creates so much hate

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Re: Such hatred
[info]24816
2009-05-10 05:02 pm UTC (link)
OSM, are you getting anything from this site besides providing forum for all the self-hating Jews (which must be discouraging for the religious people)?
How about shutting it down, P L E A S E, and freeing tons of quality time?
-FI

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Re: Such hatred
(Anonymous)
2009-05-12 11:06 am UTC (link)
I am so glad that Anon (of this thread's fame) will eventually die

He/she creates so much hate


I do not really care for Anon any each way. He/she may live long life or die in an accident this morning. I do not believe that he/she even understood the hatefull implication of what he'd said.

Now, OSM and others, not every criticism deserves or warants the 'self hating Jew' moniker. But wishing the death of Judaism and/or Jews?! What would you say if that lowlife would say something similar, but replace the word Judaism with another group's or individual's name?

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Re: Such hatred
[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-12 11:35 am UTC (link)
I know, terrible. I'm sure you've never heard anyone expressing similar sentiments about Islam.

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Re: Such hatred
(Anonymous)
2009-05-13 02:50 am UTC (link)
a) Not from Muslims (usually Muslims do not carry the self-hatred pathogen.)
b) I condemn such sentiment from anybody and towards anybody

I am not a Chabadnik, so I do not even condone what their book, the Tanya says about non-Jews.

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(Anonymous)
2009-05-11 02:15 pm UTC (link)
Some questions about chabadtalk.com and the Chabad movement:

1. Who tends to post on the website? Who runs and moderates it?

2. To what extent are there divisions within Chabad, esp. between shlichim and CH residents?

As you know, I've been wondering about this for a while, since what I encountered on certain websites contrasted strongly with what I was seeing from my local Chabad shlichim.

One thing I've noticed is what I'll call "dynasties" of shlichim. My rabbi and rebbetzin are both from families like this - they are the children of shlichim, their many siblings also tend to be shlichim, and they have numerous shlichim cousins.

They have connections to Crown Heights - but it's not like they spent their whole lives there, nor do they have all of their family there.

Their livelihoods depend on less observant Jews - not on pleasing the religious establishment. Increasingly, there are also connections with non-Jews - from politicians to celebrities to simply those that they encounter in person or via various media outlets. In the world of the shliach outside of Crown Heights, many of these encounters are positive.

As a matter of simple human nature - will the shaliach who gets praised by the wealthy donor, who may not be 100% frum, and gets honored by politicians, and contacted by non-Jews who were impressed by something they heard of his, really have more positive feelings about a crowd that wants to criticize him for being too lax and letter his wife look too sexy with a long sheital and denim skirt in her nursery school?

OTOH, if you live in Crown Heights, see it as the Rebbe's own neighborhood which you never plan to leave, and think that if you really deny reality long enough that the Rebbe will maybe reward your faith by turning up and proving that he's not dead - maybe deep down you will feel a need to show that you are not inferior to those on shlichus. Maybe you tell yourself that, even with the expense and crime, it provides the purest atmosphere for your family and that shlichim must struggle in a sea of non-Lubavitchers.

So - to what extent does a schism exist?

JRKmommy

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[info]onionsoupmix
2009-05-11 02:31 pm UTC (link)
A schism certainly exists on some level. Occasionally, we see this through letters in the neshei newsletter or posts on imamother lamenting how ladies on shlichus try too hard to fit in with their secular mekuravim, etc and they wear high heels and tight skirts, etc, etc.

To some extent a shliach whose existence depends on the interest of educated, politically-correct college students will also shy away from emphasizing the divisive nature of some tenents of the philosophy and focus more on how we all love each other and everyone is special, etc. I don't know if, over time, this gets absorbed and becomes part of one's psyche overall or if it stays a show.

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attem niqroeem adam, ein hem niqroeem adam.
(Anonymous)
2009-05-12 09:14 am UTC (link)
To some extent a shliach whose existence depends on the interest of educated, politically-correct college students will also shy away from emphasizing the divisive nature of some tenents of the philosophy and focus more on how we all love each other and everyone is special, etc. I don't know if, over time, this gets absorbed and becomes part of one's psyche overall or if it stays a show.

a very good question.
it remains mostly a show however, since the shlichim deliberately and knowingly conceal the divisive and hilite "the unifying".
every now and then, they will try to explain -according to the listener / the john's perceived readiness to listen- that their faith is about loving ur feloju rather than loving a plain feloman.
soon it will become evident that plain feloman is not even man. sheneymor: attem niqroeem adam, ein hem niqraeem adam.
Eshkol Hakofer

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